I had written a few weeks ago about all of the crying and Abigail only being able to sleep during the day when we would hold her - if we set her down she would wake up and the screaming would start again. Well, a few days ago I was inspired to re-read a book I had read before Noah was born. BabyWise. Following the principles worked great with him, and this time we were doing the part as far as the babies routine being Eat, Play, Sleep, but we had forgotten some of the finer points about sleeping during nap times. Before I go further, I have found that people either LOVE or HATE that book, and I would say that most of those that don't like it haven't actually read it, or at least not all of it. So, before I get tomatoes thrown at me by all of my AP mommy friends :-), let me reassure you that I feed Abigail whenever she is hungry!
O.k. so that being said, we decided that Abigail needed to learn how to fall asleep on her own, and be able to stay asleep when she wasn't being held. I thought that this might involve a lot of screaming, but I knew that it would be best for her, and best for everyone in the long run, so we were all going to tough it out.
So yesterday morning at her first nap, she cried for a total of 10 minutes, and then - silence. She was sound asleep, and I was actually able to do things. It might seem like 10 minutes is a long time, but she would often scream for 10 minutes before going to sleep even when we were holding her trying to get her to fall asleep. And this way I didn't have to hold her the whole time while she slept! I was thinking, WHY didn't I do this earlier? So today at her first nap she didn't even make a peep, not one single peep, she just fell right asleep. I couldn't believe it! (Well, actually I could because that is what happened with Noah) I just bundled her up, laid her down when she was happy and she fell right to sleep. At her second nap she cried off and on for about 10 minutes before going to sleep, and at this third nap she cried just a little bit and now she is just making little happy noises and grunts and is about to drift off to sleep. Ahh.... sleeping bliss! :-)
Oh, and the reason I got inspired to re-read the book was I was talking with a gal who was hosting an Arbonne party for me and she was telling me how her kids would just go right to sleep when laid down. Turns out she followed the BabyWise principles. I am thanking God right now that we had that conversation!!! :-)